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Student Comments
Touch and Look Course (TLC)

Course Dates: October - December, 1995

I had many wonderful experiences during this course. Not only did I get my goals but I got them double. The sensation in my body during orgasm has intensified. My ability to ask for what I want and find out what my partner wants has become an added pleasure to my sensual life. This course has honed my Communication tools outside of the bedroom also and giving me a new appreciation for my body. I had fun with everyone in the course, even those I first had reservations about. But the most fun person for me was Rene. His enthusiasm and specific details of how he was feeling was a real turn on and made me feel great. Thank you! Believe it or not, I can't wait for the next Touch and Look course.

-C.T.

Hard work. Good pace. It was great having veterans in the class. Can't single one person out. Expanded my vision of how and what can be. Created more possibilities.

-S.R.

I thought the course was delivered in a very professional, fun and provocative manner. I got all my goals. I feel that this has been the best "hands-on" communication course I've ever taken. I'm really glad that I finally got trained in the training cycle. I've heard it described for four years, and now I get it, thanks! I noticed that I had major resistance to the homework. I think the homework was good because I got to feel more.

-J.C.

I was very resistant to taking this course because I had no idea what it was going to entail. My immediate afterthoughts are that I experienced pleasure by doing a woman with my new sexual organs - my right and left hands. By learning how to use the training cycle I've become more confident and have enjoyed the pleasure of doing a woman through sensations that go through my index and middle fingers. It is a sensation I have never experienced. By learning how to put my attention on a woman by first taking a look then asking to touch her i.e. hug, perfunctory kiss, etc., I feel more at ease and less fearful of ultimately wanting to do her. The six-week course was such that in doing all the homework, i.e. exercises, withholds, extra do dates, etc., it game me the confidence to explore more pleasure especially in seeing, touching and fingering a woman's clitoris. The most fun partner I had was the voluptuous, enchanting, very fun, and a great kisser - Chrissy! My fantasy dream.

-R.A.

I had the most fun with Françoise!
Highlights of the course:
- getting dressed up to come every Wednesday night.
- kissing exercises
- enjoying looking at Kim, Wendy, Sheri, Vera, Steve and RJ
- doing the homework exercises
Inside the course room every Wednesday was always hot and thrilling. Outside of the course room (i.e. my everyday life) has gotten more hot and thrilling. Highlight was my partner doing our friend while I watched and told her how pretty she looked.

-N.S.

1. I feel that I advanced in all of my stated goals.
2. I want to use all of the communication tools that I exercised in this course.
3. I was very gratified to find out that the training cycle works so well when used as taught.
4. I discovered that specific frames from the course can heighten my experiences outside the course, and vice-versa.
5. Touch and Look is a good complement to other courses that I've taken which also stress communication.
6. I had the most fun with Françoise.

-J.K.

The taking touch has a new meaning for me now. I love how RJ talked so thoroughly about it, making it an act in its own. When RJ touch my thigh and stroked it softly when I was doing the thigh exercises with someone from the course, I flashed again, he was "taking" my thigh, owning it and created this intense sensation in my body. I also loved his explanation of seduction... I am so happy. Thank you for such a wonderful life. I love you so much.

-F.D.

Thank you for a very great course. The session where we emphasized the taking touch changed my whole experience of sexing. That concept really was driven home well and I noticed a big jump in the quality and intensity of my sensual experience with all of my partners. Focusing on doing the stroke that is most pleasurable to me allowed me to produce several of the most intense orgasms I've produced in a woman. The conversation about havingness tonight was extremely timely - thank you. I love having all of you in my life, it makes my life extremely rich having so many caring friends. I noticed more than ever before what it's like for a woman having a sensual experience with a man who's not paying attention and mashing her and how truly offensive untrained men can be. I am also paying much closer attention my partner now and I thank you for the opportunity to enjoy each other more and take care of each other better and be better friends. I've never before taken so much pleasure from kissing her.

-T.W.

I really appreciate the change in one of my regular partners communicati0on skills while I'm doing her. It was such a noticeable difference and she is getting off better because of this course and her improved communication skills. Thank you. I had a lot of fun with this course and although I was not "in" the course, I was in the course. Thank you for so graciously including me in this course.

-B.C.

I keep thinking about my last homework session. I did myself for one hour while looking at my pussy in a mirror for the first 20 minutes. When I added connections using my upper lip I went really high and stayed there for the next 40. That was the first time I stayed right there with what I was feeling in my clit for such a long time and being so high. It was a great experience. I also could feel the tingle in my upper lip (while still rubbing my clit) after taking my finger away 10 - 15 minutes before. That was a breakthrough for me, never having felt real successful with connections as I did. It's really fun to keep taking this course, hearing the same information and each time learning something about my body I hadn't realized and feeling and experiencing more each time. I really enjoyed doing exercises with one person from the course in particular. I felt he was very sensual and a good communicator and responsive learner - I had the most fun with him.

-S.M.

So hard to choose who was the most fun - I have had specific frames of one man's cock all week and they still bring me pleasure as I think of him now! There were times where the communication with a do was very easy and flowing and times I didn't communicate what I wanted well. I want to keep practicing identifying what I want and asking for it and using the training cycle. The timing of this course was perfect. It was perfect to digest past Bruce's breakup and perfect to step into course and plan again - use this course to start playing again. Thanks Sheri for the invite - that was very fun! P.S. Latex can be fun!!!

-D.B.

Highlights:
- The third to the last exploratory kiss with Françoise while I was coach.
- Bringing the information home and making a great sex life an ever better sex life.
- The course has heavily influenced our ever day living at my house. Basically we have gone from having many sensual experiences to having one long sensual experience. We got hooked up!

-T.W.

I had the most fun with my good friend in the course, specifically, the exploratory, penetrating kisses he gave me on my lift cheek close to my ear. When his hands were on my shoulder and waist, I responded by pressing my thigh into his hard cock and dropping my head back. I enjoyed the heat, my surrender and the sensation throughout my whole body. My pussy was contracting and it went way down the inside of my thighs. That session was, I believe, the best turn-on I've felt to date in my life. Which leads me to ruminate that my appreciation for the intensity and complexity of sensation in my body has increased dramatically for me during this Touch and Look course. During my exercises last night, I had the book "The Story of O" - a page turned to how O surrenders to her lover's being with another and how her lover says over and over to her that he loves her until "her eyes are clear... and she is calm." I found this profound. I find the desire for having an experience like O in the chateau to be my quest to source the turn on I feel - the intense connection between my buttocks, back of my thighs and my pussy; complete surrender to another (others); being restrained; taking orders; having unpredictable sensual experiences; exploring the realm of pleasure and pain. During this course I noticed I could control the duration and intensity of being hexed - to be hexed or not - getting up off of it faster - surrender i.e. giving it up faster - I sought the higher goal, went for the good and started to have more fun. Thank you!

-K.M.

Student Comments Touch and Look Course (TLC)

Student Comments
Touch and Look Course (TLC)