Student Comments
Touch and Look Course (TLC)


Course dates: 3/10/00 to 3/12/00


Wow - I've learned so much this weekend. The way my dates have changed during this course is phenomenal. I'm really learning the value of constant communication. I realize that through communication greater pleasure can be felt. It feels really good to pleasure another person - In my dates, I got more turned on when the other person became more turned on. I've lost some of my inhibitions. The mirror exercise was very valuable. On Friday night, I felt some fear standing in front of every one, confronting myself and comparing myself to others. By this evening, I felt much more confident and approving of myself. I noticed that I did feel sexier when I felt good about myself. Thank you for teaching me skills that I can use for being a better friend to women.

  -C.P.

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Most incredible and impactful course so far. The structure of the course made it free of the confrontation that I expected to experience. The gradual increase in the level of communication, coming in conjunction with the increase in the level of intimacy, left me at ease, yet excited, for each new exercise.

Never having felt at ease without clothing, I wonder at how comfortable I felt without any this weekend. A loving, accepting, fun group of people.

Kissing N.D. I can still feel her lips and neck on my lips. I could have continued for hours. For weeks. Makes me wonder what I need to do, and how long it would take, to be able to do the entire exercise on her lips.

Absolution. Confirmation. Come on Welcomed Consensus... I love how I am around you, and I'll take however much you will give.

  -L.H.

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It has been incredible being up at the ranch. The intensity has had my head swim at times and the opportunity to get mine and have more was immediately obvious to me each time. I am beginning to feel at home with the highness. The course was much ore than I expected and remembered from the last time. I was more present in all of the exercises and enjoyed doing the men. I had the experience of getting excited right prior to the exercises, turned on to have sex as opposed to having performance anxiety. Having my attention on others and on the good so much more has improved my life exponentially, Thank you!

  -T.G.

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N.M. chewing, licking, and sucking her way around my jawbone. The turn on flowing from her crotch washing over my genitals felt good.

Giving the fantasy frame of fucking N.D. Looking at her and feeling the force of her presence. Her power and mystery enchanted me.

Connections with K.S. Feeling her nipple and her clit, the edge of sensation in my fingertips mirroring each other.

Doing R.S., seeing the darkness under her eyes, her sultry confidence. Feeling her clit, her spot affixing to my fingertip with a sticky reassurance. Feeling my confidence grow with her approval.

Thank you for having me. Thank you, I'm happy. It's a pleasure to be in your lives.

  -B.B.

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This course was so much fun! Thank you everyone. Your attention on us was impeccable. I noticed on many occasions your loving attention focusing on a person and taking them where they needed to go. I felt complete trust in you - specific frame: R.J. - looking at me and knowing I was whacked and what it was about before I was able to confront it myself. Thank you! Your words really got through to me and empowered me to learn more and give more pleasure. Every time I could feel any of you put your attention on me while I was doing, I felt your approval and it egged me on and brought me higher. I busted through so much. You guys rock my world!

  -R.F.

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I loved doing N.D. My first time doing a woman. I've been wanting more sensual experiences with her - perfect. I even told her half way through the day yesterday I though it would be fun to do her. Her pussy is so beautiful her clit felt great under my left index finger. I felt you guys really raised the bar on me by paring us up. I have a new appreciation for DOing and the men who DO me (and women too.) I knew exactly where her spot was and it was easy to go off her spot when my attention wandered. Doing is a beautiful thing - two people putting their full attention on one persons pleasure (which feels good to both) is such an intimate experience. It feels good to be deliberate about pleasure - about feeling more pleasure and producing pleasure in another's body. I loved all the exercises using the training cycle (especially). I got what I've been wanting to be more approving, to find my partner right to be confident when asking for what I want... to ask for what I want... to take responsibility for how the date goes. To be nice. To be good at it... in other words telling the truth without anger in a way that feels good to both people. We both win!!! I love you. Thank you!

  -S.K.

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The first exercise I did with B.B. was so intense and fun. It felt so comfortable and I was already very turned on before I even sat down. And it was delightful to notice how much pleasure I felt from him touching my thigh. It was just as much fun as when he had his finger on my clit during a later exercise, and that was a really great session as well.

I noticed how relaxed and peaceful I feel. I've been feeling my pussy all weekend.

I also loved how everyone admired my pussy and I felt so acknowledged and beautiful. It is so great to feel so good in this voluptuous, rubenesque body.

Talking so much during dates is a big step for me. And I can see how doing this more can make for more fun.

  -R.S.

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I noticed, looking back, how each exercise was a gradual build up of breaking through boundaries and limitations to reach the level of intensity we did in the last exercises - and breaking though those boundaries felt so good. There were things I did that I didn't think I'd be OK with or even enjoy - but talking and telling people what would and wouldn't feel good to me gave me and them the opportunity to win with each other and I had a lot more fun because of that. On of my favorite frames was doing K.S. - I'd never done a woman before and I - we got so high off of each other, I could tell the difference so well than with a man, we were bouncing off of each other and giving each other our turn on, as with a guy I can tell how he is a responder. The frame was when I looked at her pussy and it was so engorged in the middle and she felt very inviting - when I hooked my finger under her hood - I could feel her clit and the sensation on my finger was just how I imagined it on the other side.

  -M.B.

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I loved the kissing, watching RJ and Sheri. kiss I felt him drinking her in, all of her as Wendy said, standing on the threshold in front of the stove to be tall enough to kiss Bill mouth to mouth. I still feel the hot tingle on my lips from running my lips across his cheek and chin, penetrating into his throat, biting his chin. Christine, Dennis, Wendy, Sheri, Susan, Francoise, and RJ, you are so generous with me, your attention, your approval, your truth. I loved having so many sensual experiences with the others in the course. I loved using the training cycle I loved noticing the good, all the good in my partners. Thank you.

  -N.M.

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I value these three days more than any other (excluding graduation) with respect to having what I want, learning the information that I have been hungry for and having fun, feeling love.

Thank you W.C for -Sheri asking people to be considerate about smoking. I felt so much love. -R.T. those last 10 strokes that felt like you were reassembling my pussy, rebuilding my character. I have missed you. -Wendy and Sheri for that great funny training cycle example -Wendy for the way that you looked over at me several times. I felt unadulterated joy. -Francoise for the way that we looked at each other after the mirror exercise. -To all for your superb coaching. Even the way that you coached taught me.

This course got my orgasm back on track. I thought about calling it the R and D course -researching orgasm/developing character. Thank you -

Thank you most of all for my name - it's working!

  -N.D.

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I've learned how to relax and feel more of my sensuality. I also learned how to do this by experiencing other people's body's and feeling their feeling. I enjoyed seeing so many different pussies in such a short time and the exchange of energies between them and I. I feel more clarity than ever - getting off has changed the chemistry in my mind and thus giving me more insight to my feelings and other people's as well.

The training cycle proved to be the most effective tool. I have learned the intensity of the exercises were a great way to understand the training cycle I loved the feeling of approval and compliments and how it brought both partners up. I'm still going up and refuse to go down.

  -M.B.

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I'm not sure where to start: I could write a volume over what I experienced this weekend. For a guy who hasn't touched a pussy in 2 ½ years, I touched more in a 2 day period than I have in my life! Touch and Look... wow!

Before I started this course, I felt like the classes I took previously was like climbing up a mountain. I showed at the TLC, having reached this summit, at a great precipice, ready to jump off. It was OK, cause I felt safe. During the course I jumped off the cliff... but instead of falling, I feel like I'm flying!

Thanks W.C., I enjoyed that, and would like to do it again sometime!

  -A.B.

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I really enjoyed the connections part of this class. In my homework and the exercises I focused on my introitus as a connection to my clit, so I am looking forward to fucking with those both connected so well.

I enjoyed being lecherous in my exercises. I totally took pleasure from the student position. And then with being done it felt really good to be able to get off with any one of the guys that I partnered with. I enjoyed telling them exactly what I wanted, and approving constantly. Going back to the basics of approval, finding my partner right, then building on that was powerful for me.

I also like exercising being deliberate in the classroom as the tumescence built throughout the weekend. Every time I felt myself get jangly I remembered to keep acknowledging each stroke or instant in time.

Thank you Welcomed Consensus, my life is extraordinary. I got all the goals, particularly: 1) enjoying and not being distracted while DOing men. (I loved every stroke.) 2) being more connected while being done, less distracted. 3) I learned how to push out from behind my clit. This is great, because I learned how to relax and push out at the same time, and could feel how much more sensation is available in my entire pussy and clit specifically.

  -R.S.

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I really enjoyed getting to know all the terrific people who were in this course. The sense of connection that was generated was incredible. What we learned about communicating really made a huge difference in how pleasurable and fun I had doing the exercises.

  -M.W.

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I feel so full, so appreciated and approved of by the teachers and the other students. The coaching and training I received was very valuable and I know my improved communication skills will benefit me in getting what I want in all areas of my life. Just as importantly, I know how to set up situations so everybody wins.

  -K.S.

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